Falling in Love

Lately I've been thinking a lot about:

apple picking, the smell of fall, cool and crisp days, pumpkin carving, hot apple cider, scarves but no gloves, Yankee candle's "Autumn Wreath", making apple pies, corn mazes, pumpkin spice lattes, crunchy leaves, apple cider donuts, bright red trees, crisp evening walks, candy corn, and clementine oranges, just to name a few.

This is the view from our living room.

I am very, very excited for autumn.

Living the Life

My dad and Step-mom came to visit us in Minnesota last weekend. Felt kind of weird that I was hosting them. For the first 18 years of my life that was the other way around.

For about a week before they arrived, (when I wasn't dodging Republican National Convention traffic and road closures) I started to think about what we might want to do with them in the twin cities - what cool touristy things we could bring them to to show off our new digs. I really couldn't come up with much, so I asked my parents to do the research for me, "Let me know if there are any sites around here you'd want to see!". My dad responded that they just want to see me and see our life out here.

That was all the invitation I needed.

I told my dad that "seeing our life" meant house projects. So my father installed another branch of the forced air system (with Dan's help). My step mom and I went to Menard's and bought a fire and water-proof safe, for all those important papers that it would suck to lose. Later that afternoon we cut down some branches of the apple tree in our backyard that were interfering with the power chords, then promptly made a ton of apple sauce out of the apples. No, seriously, at least a gallon of apple sauce. Then in the evening we went to a Color Me Mine pottery glazing studio and "painted" a large popcorn bowl - a house warming gift from my Dad and Debby (that's an "O" for Olfelt in the middle there).


The other part of seeing our life out East (in the Midwest. It's East of the West. But it's not the East) is seeing Dan's family - a major part of why we live here. So, on Sunday the whole family (with the exception of the 9 who live in the East, not the midwest) came over to our house for a pot-luck. There were 18 of us cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents. The younger cousins played on our garage sale foosball table while the adults got tours of the house and talked about our renovation projects and plans. It was so much fun and I feel like it was such a good reflection of how warm and loving the Olfelt family is.

It wasn't anything glamorous, but it was wonderful to have my dad and Debby literally experiece our life out here. I think it was a much better way to spend the weekend than traipsing around the largest mall in America or taking a tour of Target's global headquarters.

Accessorized Confidence

I have a vivid memory of being in a grocery store as a 4th grader and seeing a girl slightly older than me with a purse hanging from her shoulder. It was love at first sight - with the purse that is. "Someone near my age is old enough to have a purse?" I thought, and the campaign was on. It took me approximately 3 months until I had convinced my mom that it was time for her little girl to go through the right of passage and get herself a big girl purse. I saved the subsequent weeks' allowances, and invested it all straight into that glorious symbol of maturity. I can picture it now in all it's light blue, plastic, Caboodles-branded, long-strapped splendor. I have no idea what I put in it (my best guesses are: Lipsmackers lip glosses in flavors like Dr. Pepper and Vanilla Icing, a Hello Kitty pen, a half-finished friendship bracelet, and pogs) but there's been one on my shoulder ever since.

Nowadays the staples of my purse are wallet, keys, sunglasses, phone, checkbook, lip gloss (Burt's Bees is more my style now), and a pen. In reality that's all that will fit, and even then I have a hard time zipping it unless those items are all in the appropriate places. This means that anything else I need to tote with me has to find other means by which to be carried - typically my hands. For example, I have been putting my makeup on in the car on the way to work (I should state here that DAN DRIVES. We now carpool everyday which has been awesome) . When I get to work, I sling my purse on my shoulder, grab my lunch bag with one hand and that makeup bag with the other, then finagle a finger out so that I can press '9' on the elevator. At the end of the day yesterday, I grabbed my beloved-ly small purse and left the office, only to realize that I forgot my life line... *ahem*... makeup bag in my desk drawer (ladies, ever had to go out in the morning in business casual completely sans makeup? 'Naked' is the only feeling I can liken it to). It was this oversight due to maximum purse capacity that made me realize: it's time to move up another step on the purse totem pole.

Don't worry, I didn't shell out the cash for a designer bag (although, if there's anyone in NY or LA reading this and knows a good street vendor... I'm in the market), but I did buy a new one that is more than double the volume of any purse I've previously owned. It's fantastically roomy and will fit my usuals, AND my makeup bag, AND my planner - all with room to spare, although I've yet to figure out how to pull out a floor lamp, Mary Poppins style, I do believe it is possible with this sucker.

In complete contrast with the feeling I had of going to work naked-faced, having this "I am woman, hear me roar" bag on my shoulder gives me a phony yet enjoyable woosh of empowerment. When I was 9, a transparent blue purse meant I was growing up. Now, it's as though I'm making the statement 'I am important enough to have enough crap to fill this purse' (arbitrary elitism, it's a little game I play). What does that mean really? Absolutely nothing. But it feels like I'm announcing my grown-up-dom all over again (14 years later), and it is wonderful.